me [nervous] : i realized lately that i dont really feel romantically attracted to guys, even you. i still really am attracted to you otherwise and wanna date you, but i understand if you feel used
him: heck yeah i dont really feel romantic attraction either
that was 10 months ago. we are very happy together. our relationship may not look like others, but we are definitely not just friends
hey. do whatever you want btw. it’s your identity. kiss people for fun. enjoy sex. nobody’s stopping you. being aro and/or ace doesn’t mean you have to be repulsed by romantic or sexual activities if you don’t want to.
and also! things only mean what you meant them to mean. you can have platonic sex and platonically make out with your friends. it’s true. just be sure to communicate so that everyone involved understands and you’re good.
You know I find it funny as an aroace person when I’m told I haven’t ‘met the right person yet’, because it insinuates that people only fall in love or come to like 'the right people’.
People fall in love with absolute pieces of shit all the time. They fall in love with people that don’t love them and with people they will soon no longer love.
A lot of people that love hardly ever fall for the 'right person’. So why is it me that hasn’t even fallen for the 'wrong person’ that has to find the 'right person’.
This is your reminder that romantic love is a hoax perpetuated by Big Romo to sell more useless crap like necklaces and novelty pencils that say things like “my love for you is THIS BIG”
there is so much nuance to being in love and being aromantic
like god i feel warm wherver you even look in my direction, i woukd give you the stars if you asked for it, you know me in a way no one else done And yet i can never love you in a way that can be understood
